You've probably heard a lot about the beautiful, friendly and fun loving Thai girls and would love to know how to go about meeting the one of your dreams but have no idea where to start looking. I shall attempt to guide you on how best to meet some of these extremely attractive Asian girls but please remember that I cannot offer any guarantees. There are many ways one can meet Thai girls while on holiday in this magnificent tropical paradise and it's not that difficult either.
Finding the right one is! Certainly more than the one that has just caught your eye at the infamous go-go club at Nana Plaza or Soi Cowboy. Those gorgeous almond eyes and equally beautiful broad smile, while trying not to mention the fact that she's practically naked, could ignite a very tempting invitation. At some stage you may even think that this is love at first site. Well you had better stop right there. Although you may be totally mesmerized, this could easily be the start of a very precarious affair.
The language, customs and behavior of Thai people are a real mystery to most western men even those who are married to Thai women including the ones who live in Thailand or abroad. The rewards of understanding and adapting to Thai culture can be quite substantial though, and many Thai girls have huge potential to make the most interesting and exciting love partners you could ever wish for.
My beautiful Thai Friend Nattalee
Meeting Pretty Thai Girls
Dating Agencies
There are numerous avenues where you can meet beautiful Thai ladies. If you want to start from home before arriving in Thailand then the best way would be one of the Thai dating agencies. There are quite a number of them on the web but one that springs to mind is
Sweet Singles
in Bangkok. Their premises are not that easy to find so once you are in the city you would need to make sure you have their address before you go. Also there was no signage to indicate their actual position. What they do have though, is a huge selection of gorgeous girls of all ages to choose from. This is where I met my girlfriend Cat.
It may be advisable to go to a reputable and accredited dating agency, most of which you will find in and around the city of Bangkok. Girls registered at these agencies are often screened to determine their suitability in establishing cross cultural relationships but this is not always the norm. I must also point out that Thai agencies do not allow sex workers on their books but again I have no way of confirming this. Doing a little bit of investigating can do you no harm.
My Girlfriend Cat
Meeting Pretty Thai Girls
Beer Bars and Go-Go Clubs
One of the most commonly known avenues where you can meet many gorgeous Thai ladies are at the thousands of beer bars and Go-Go clubs found all over the country. Most tourists coming to Thailand will be completely overwhelmed by all this exotic beauty. Beer bars and Go-Go clubs range from the fairly reputable to the down right trashy so a keen sense of judgment is required. It may not be easy to think straight at times like these so take a deep breath before entering.
If you are somewhat shy, well do not panic, striking up a conversation with a bar girl is dead easy and if anything else, these girls will almost certainly approach you first before you even utter a word. Remember they have been practicing this art form for decades. It may even be intimidating at times but once you get use to all the attention and the more pubs and clubs you visit, in no time at all, you will be old hands at the game yourself. Caution is the keyword here.
If you are a little confused by what you hear about Thailand’s beautiful women, then you can get some additional tips on how to meet beautiful Pattaya Girls and develop a successful relationship from Pattaya resident Richard Gilmore.
Your Thai Girl written by a guy named Martin Hurley who has been living in Thailand for a number of years offers another excellent guide to meeting and understanding Thai women and fully enjoying the amazing Thai lifestyle.
My Pattaya Thai Bar Girlfriends
Meeting Pretty Thai Girls
Shopping Malls and Department Stores
Shopping malls and department stores are a great way to meet girls. If not in the shops themselves, just park yourself down on one of the benches you find and while trying to read a book or the local paper, keep your eye out for a special girl that might catch your attention. Simply approach her and start a conversation. Sounds easier said than done! Well you may be pleasantly surprised as many girls will respond with with some interest. In most cases this is exactly why they are here, just like you, looking for a nice foreigner to spend some quality time.
I was once followed around the shopping centre at the Royal Garden Plaza in Pattaya by a real beauty and after approaching her, I asked if she would like to have a meal with me at one of the restaurants in the centre and to my surprise, she didn't hesitate at all. Actually I cannot remember how the conversation started but what the heck, she agreed. Another time I met a girl from the Philippines while my friend was busy drawing cash from an auto bank in Bangkok.
Ripleys at Royal Garden Plaza Pattaya
Meeting Pretty Thai Girls
Business Opportunities
Should you in the country on a business venture, a good opportunity would be to find a nice Thai girl through one or other business contacts. I have personally met a few girls this way due to associations I developed while buying artworks. My personal driver in Bangkok once introduced me to a very nice Thai girl who subsequently "fell in love" with me on the first date. We are still good friends.
Another suggestion is to try and establish a relationship with staff members should you be employed, even if only living temporary in Thailand. This is a safe alternative as you would have more time to get to know one another. The advantage here could also yield a more suitable admirer as well as someone from a middle or higher family status perhaps. I have a South African friend who met his wife while working in Thailand.
Another British friend of mine who specializes in golf tours in the country, met his Thai girlfriend between playing and free time. If only on a short vacation, why not establish a bond with someone you meet while on a tour or perhaps with one of the hotel staff members. Receptionists are your best bet. It's easier than you think. I always say that if you cannot find a Thai girlfriend in the first hour of arriving, then you are not trying hard enough. Contact me if you need any help.